BE PROUD OF YOURSELF!

Hello there readers!

It has been a long time since I've updated a new post coz' exams are coming closer and it's killing me day by day. So, I decided that I would take a little break and free my mind a little by writing a little post for you.

Several days ago, I was scrolling through my tumblr dashboard, and found this picture:

This picture has a caption saying "Perfection" which really, really, upsets me. Ladies! Why would you think this is perfection? 

Since that day, I have been observing many disappointing things, like: 

1. Young teens starving themselves coz' they think they're not skinny enough.
2. Young teens self-harming themselves.
3. Young teens scolding and saying bad things about their own parents. 
4. Young teens trying to be a rebel and be all crazy and suicidal. 

These are some of the things I have observed these days, and it really upsets me. 

• Be proud and confident of your own body!

Ladies! Don't starve yourself to death, don't think of things like "Oh no, I'm not skinny enough, I'm not gonna eat anything this week." or "Ergh, I ate lunch today, I'm not gonna eat tomorrow." 

If you're hungry, then eat. Don't starve yourself, cuz' no matter what, you are who you are and no one will ever change who you are. 

If you have friends who are like "Gee, you're so fat, why do you have to eat so much?" DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM! They are just some bad lads who doesn't know how to treat their own friends and themselves. 

However, if you feel like you're really big and you really have no confidence in your own body, I suggest you go to the gym and exercise. Yes, that's it, exercise! Be healthy! Don't go all extreme dieting like not eating all day, do exercises! Maybe you can jog every morning, or go to the gym with your close friends or relatives. There are hundreds of even more healthier ways to lose weight than not eating and starving yourself, right? 

Eat healthy salad

Exercise!

• Why cut yourself? 

Ladies, please don't cut yourself... Why do such things to relieve stress? Or even, do it for fun? There are hundreds and thousands of other ways to relieve stress or do fun things. Girls these days would normally cut themselves because they just broke up, or because their friends ditched her. Why, of all choices in this world, do self-harm to yourself?

When you're stressed, you can always do fun things with your family, or find a way to that problem. You see, there's always a solution to every problem, if you try hard enough. Don't give up easily and be all like "I'll just cut myself", it's not gonna fix anything with cutting yourself! It's gonna make your situation even worse! 

For instance, you broke up with your loved ones. Don't cut yourself, go and find a solution. Maybe you can go and talk to your parents, talk to your friends, talk to your relatives, your siblings, your teachers. Go to the theme park and have fun, think of all the things you could've done without him/her. Be free! Don't do self-harm!

Go and ride! Be free!

Be with friends who will always be there for you!

• Respect your family, especially your parents

Respect, is always number 1. Without respect, everything will go bad. These days, teens are always scolding their parents, they would always bad-mouth them behind their backs, they would always have a fight with them. Why on Earth would you do that?

Okay, well, some of us have family issues. Maybe some of our parents had a divorce, maybe some of our parents cheated on one another, there are hundreds and thousands of faulty things family could have. However, no matter what, you have to love your parents unconditionally. 

You have to be grateful you have parents. Some of the children doesn't even have one, and they are dying to have one! They are dying to have a mother or a father who could love them from their bottom of their hearts. 

Maybe your parents seem rude to you, maybe they are always scolding you for no reason, grounding you for no reason, always getting the wrong idea of every single thing you do. Remember, every problem has it's solution. Perhaps, you can go and talk to them, explain every single thing why are you sad these days, or how you feel you are getting further and further from them, and tell them how much you love them and you just wanna be happy with them beside you forever. 

Appreciate your family! Love them <3

• Be happy with your life, appreciate.

Ladies, don't think of things like killing yourself coz' you don't deserve to be in this world. You deserve to be here, and you should be happy you were born. Sometimes, bad things always happens in life, there will always be problems in this world. You just have to be strong, and face that problem.

Just like a bow and arrow! An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. When life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means it's going to launch you into something great. So, just focus, and keep aiming. 

Look at The Beatles, the really famous band who have to had one of their show cancelled since the amplifier isn't loud enough to overcome the cheering of their fans. They were rejected by a company, saying that the music isn't good enough. Look at Walt Disney, the one who made fairytales and dreams for children. He was once also rejected by a company, saying that he is not creative enough.

However, these people did not give up. Their life was dragging them back with difficulties, but in the end, they succeeded because they didn't give up and found a solution to every problem. 

They could do it, why not you? :) 

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, NO MATTER WHAT! DON'T EVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU DESERVE TO BE HERE.